Cry for Help!...Some Reasons Why Nigerians are Jumping
into Lagos lagoon
The city of Lagos, known for its
aquatic beauty, is sadly turning out ugly stories. The once beautiful water
fronts and creeks now appear to hold a major attraction for desperate Nigerians
who want to end their lives tragically. Such has been the tale in the last few
weeks. Before then, there had been isolated cases of frustrated citizens
choosing suicide as quick escape route to the many, and everyday challenges, of
survival. The incidents of the past few days have raised immediate concerns
having occurred in quick succession. Sunday, March 19, a lady known as Emerald,
plunged into the Mile 2 creeks at Mazamaza on a suicide bid but was rescued by
some good Samaritans. Later same day, the state witnessed the more celebrated
story of Dr. Allwell Orji who stopped his car in the middle of the popular
Third Mainland bridge, and took a dive into the lagoon. His mutilated body was
fished out three days after. On Friday, another two suicide attempts were
recorded. The more famous of the two is the case of the aged woman, Abigail
Ogunyinka, from Ketu who jumped into the lagoon at Ebute Ero, but was rescued
by vigilante fishermen. The police authorities in Lagos, led by Fatai Owoseni,
named one Taiwo Titilayo as the second lady who made another suicide bid off
Third Mainland Bridge on Friday.
An interesting dimension to the
ugly incidents is that most Nigerians are not even aware that the act of
attempting a suicide is frowned at by the Nigerian constitution. Indeed, it is
considered a criminal offense punishable with a year’s imprisonment! By virtue
of Section 327 of the Criminal Code “Any person who attempts to kill himself is
guilty of a misdemeanour, and is liable to imprisonment for one year”. The
penal code (Nigeria Penal Code, Chapter 27, Section 327) isn’t shy of making
provisions, “Any person who attempts to kill himself is guilty of a misdemeanour,
and is liable to imprisonment for one year.” The law, as it stands, exists to
penalise the hapless ones who fail to complete their mission, while the
successful ones, with greater liability, who are now beyond the reach of the
same law, are exempted from punishment. Although attempted suicide is a crime
in Nigeria, actual prosecutions against those who attempt it appear to be rare.
However, a significant number of those who make an attempt to terminate their
lives may have a wide range of psychological, economic, personality and social
pathologies that push them to the cliff of mental disequilibrium, such that
they resort to such a seeming absurdity. The big question is, why are Nigerians
jumping to their deaths, using the Lagos lagoon as a safe haven for a quick
trip to the world beyond? Here are 11 reasons citizens may be expressing
absolute disgust with their lives and choosing suicide as get-away from all the
challenges of life:
1. Depression: According
to Dr. Raphael Ogbolu, a Consultant Psychiatrist with the Lagos University
Teaching Hospital, LUTH, hopelessness is more likely, the strongest indication
that will warrant someone to kill him or herself. “A medical condition
like depression alters the way one thinks and makes you ‘truly’ believe that
there is no hope”. The case of Dr. Orji cannot be far-fetched as it was
reported that he had failed a major exam. To him, all hope was lost, and then
the essence of living is lost. This is traceable to virtually all cases of
suicide in the country.
2. Economic Hardship: The
economic recession and inflation has had its toll on Nigerians, particularly
‘the common man’ who is either struggling to keep his/her business afloat or
feeding from hand to mouth. So is the case of Abigael Ogunyinka, the aged woman
who had borrowed money from a Micro Finance bank to run her ‘amala business’
and had defaulted to the tune of N150,000.00. Mama decided to end her life
because of her inability to pay her debt and the embarrassment she’s likely to
face. With interest rates remaining at double digits, what are the
possibilities that many more loan defaulters won’t reason the way mama Abigael
did?. Bala Zakka, an economist could not agree less about the effect of the
economic hardship on people. He said, “the country has failed to think towards
that direction, people are suffering economically, companies are gearing
towards closing up and it is having a ripple effect on workers, it is very
psychological and the holding limits is fast being exceeded”.
3. Drug
Abuse: In Nigeria, a higher percentage of youths and middle-aged have had a
taste of banned intoxicating substances; Indian hemp, marijuana, codeine,
cocaine, alcohol, to Name a few.. Many have blamed their addiction on lack of
job, peer pressure, motivation and so on. These substances are abused as the
mind craves for more to take the worry away. The trend is fast becoming a norm
as youths no longer hide while abusing these substances. Although, no recent
reported incidence has been traced to drugs, it has had its fair share in
suicide cases.
4. Mistakes: The
decision to commit suicide due to mistake or negligence as the case may be is
narrowed down to how the victim pre-empts the reaction of people when they find
out their reasons for committing suicide. Again, Mama Abigael probably had
started to blame herself in the first place for collecting the loan for her
amala business that is looking impossible to pay back. Mama’s example to
intending loan collectors is; “do not collect loan if you are not sure of how
to pay back, and if you do, Lagos lagoon is just a bus ride away”.
5. Unemployment/Financial
problem: With a poor economy, many people lose their jobs and look for new ones,
but since the competition is fierce, landing a new job, and a good one at that,
can be difficult. In many cases being unemployed not only makes people feel as
if they have no purpose in life, it can lead to depression over lack of an
income as well. Employment provides most people with a sense of purpose and
belonging to a specific group or company. The financial stress can take a major
toll on a person’s mental health. People who are struggling financially
sometimes see no end in sight to their debt and bills. In Nigeria’s difficult
economy, most people are living on the edge because of unemployment or
underemployment.
6. Relationship problems: Some
people have difficulties making friends and maintaining a close group for
socialization. Others struggle with staying in abusive relationships just so
that they can avoid feeling isolated and lonely, not feeling appreciated, or
going through break-ups. As far as romantic relationships are concerned, the
act of a break-up can trigger intense feelings of depression, anxiety, guilt
and panic leading a person to deal with a lot of emotional pain. Often times
most people commit suicide as a result of break-up.
7. Terminal
illness/chronic pains: Many people with terminal illnesses that have no
hope of improving their situation based on current science and medicine may
become depressed. The case of Dr. Allwell Orji who is alleged to be a sickle
cell patient probably felt powerless about his condition. People with terminal
illnesses or people with chronic pains might just feel justified to end their
pains and that of their loved ones by taking their life.
8. Trauma/Stress (Post
Traumatis Stress Disorder, PTSD): People who have been through
traumatic experiences like wars, sexual assault, losing a loved one or any
terrifying ordeal may develop Post Traumatic Stress disorder. They feel tensed
and are easily startled which can make them angry and irritable all the time.
It wounds a person’s sense of self, their value, their worth and they no longer
feel secure in this world and thus they are driven to the idea of suicide to
end it all. A case recalled is that of a middle aged woman in Lagos who lost
her only child and husband; she resulted to committing suicide, but was rescued
by her mother.
9. Mental illness: For
those who have killed themselves from bipolar disorder or other forms of mental
illness. Driving across major highways in Lagos, you will witness a good number
of mentally unbalanced people who are exposed to the dangers of being hit by a
vehicle, a case that comes to mind is a recent incident along the Lagos-Ibadan
expressway, where a mentally unbalanced man was hit while walking in the centre
of the expressway. His mental state can be the cause for such suicidal act.
10. Bullying: Bullying
can have a profound effect on the way people think and how they feel. Most
people that are bullied end up feeling extremely depressed, worthless, and
hopeless to change their situation. In many cases, bullying goes completely
unrecognized until the victim can’t take it anymore and sees suicide as the
only way to escape the pain that they are experiencing. Although, most reported
cases of bullying in the country have been met with strict penalties, but the
concern is, how many victims speak out? Bullying can take the shape of verbal
and non-verbal (Physical) and sometimes emotional.
11. Lack of adequate specialists:
Most
hospitals in the country, especially public health institutions lack specialist
psychiatrists or psychologists to handle cases that could eventually lead to
suicidal thoughts. These professionals are few in-between, and mostly available
to the rich, with the common man left to his fate.
Nearly everyone has experienced suicidal thoughts
at one point or another throughout their existence. Everyone deals with tough
times, but some people have been dealt a tougher hand when it comes to life
circumstances, post trauma, mental and/or physical illness, social standing and
ability to cope with depressive emotions. How such cases are handled is what makes
the difference.
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